Buffer cannot be adjusted for icecast streams

Hello,

I have a samsung vibrant running 2.2 but my problem is with 2.3.  
I have a police scanner that I broadcast using icecast.  I also broadcast via radioreference.com (I'm not sure exactly how they serve audio).  I listen to my icecast stream in my car.
When I upgrade my rom to a 2.3 based rom (say, cyanogen), xiialive (2.2.4 free) always buffers for 15 seconds of time.  I have tried in my icecast settings disabling burst on connect and setting the burst-size to one.  Same problem.  I broke down and tried a pirated pro version of xiialive (2.1.6) and manually set both buffers to 1000ms and it still buffers for 15 seconds. 

What's weird is, when I listen via radioreference (the m3u on this page):http://m.radioreference.com/?feedId=7059  it buffers for about 3 seconds.  It's only on my icecast feed http://184.91.43.57:8001/listen.m3u that it has the delay problem.  Unfortunately their feed is 16k and mine is 48k.

I will absolutely purchase your app if you can tell me how to fix this (perhaps a config problem on my end?) or that it will be addressed in a future release.  I am at my wit's end and have googled the shit out of this problem.  I used to use streamfurious but the developer has basically abandoned it, leaving you guys as the last ones standing.

I'm going to include a link to my stream.

I'm begging you, please help me.  Tell me something anything that might help.

Thanks so much,

Calvin